Lego my ego!

To love is like rain from above...
To love is like rain from above… (Image: Sandi Martinez)


In honor of April’s National Poetry Month!

Contributed by Sandi Martinez

The bone you carry

Appears to make you weary,

Are you tired?

The treasures you hide under that dirt pile

Grow larger every day,

May as well bury the rest under the hay

What will you do with so much?

And how will you remember

To give is to live

To love is like rain from above

Washes over the parts that we don’t see

And we are new – no more new stuff,

Old stuff, or too much is not enough

Lego my ego,

I want to be who I am

No fluff, buff, or shuff,

Just me, you, this little place we call house

And enough love that keeps on giving…

Lego my ego would ya?

I’m empty now anyway

Nothing has become enough

Lego my ego

©Sandi Martinez

5 Tips to help Prevent Holiday Visits to the Vet

Your animal companion senses your travel anxiety and holiday stress... (Image: Microsoft)
   Your animal companion senses your travel anxiety and holiday stress… (Image: Microsoft)


by Sandi Martinez (Guest contributor)

Christmas is over, and some of us are now putting away the decorations and/or waiting until New Year’s Day has come and gone.  Many of us have traveled or will travel somewhere – and may still be still there – wherever ‘there’ is.

Because our animal companions are part of our family, their care is very important to us.  We will have left our pets with family members, trusted pet-sitters, or sometimes even last-minute trusted acquaintances.

The tension and fear in your furry friend may be obvious as you pack your bags, leave instructions for the sitter, and begin your stressful preparations for travel.  Your animal companion senses your travel anxiety and holiday stress.

While it’s impossible to gauge the inevitable ‘bad behavior’ your little friend will exhibit, here are some helpful tips to alleviate what could be a truly disastrous home-coming!

  • Instruct your sitters/visitors to stick to the feeding schedule you have set for them. Prevent the likelihood that the pet(s) will help themselves by keeping food out of reach or even crating pets until after those sumptuous meals are consumed. (However, keeping in the holiday spirit, a small helping of that juicy turkey or ham, would be very happily received!  Don’t forget to keep the healthy treats you normally give them on hand.)
  • If you allow your sitter/visitor to bring a pet to your home for the holidays, consider how your animal will interact with the furry visitor, especially if they have never met before. Keeping the pets separated is another option; block off doors or crate the animals to help prevent territorial pet disputes from ending up at the Veterinary Emergency room!
  • A need for affection and interaction is paramount with furry friends experiencing separation anxiety; keep an eye out for mishaps between your pets, and human visitors. Again, closed doors and crates can be a good thing. (Children running amok or the elderly may trip on the pet(s), therefore increasing chances you will take a human to the emergency room as well!)
  • Chances are your sitter/visitors are well inclined to leave underwear, socks, and other shiny, (especially for cats) objects out of reach.  Your furry friends will jump at the chance to chew on something, new, unusual, and exciting…
  • The Big No-No… No candy for the pet(s).  Especially anything that has chocolate or gum-like ingredients in it.  Stick to healthy treats.

Again, you wouldn’t have left your pet in just anyone’s hands, but you do want to be clear about the rules you have set up, in order to ensure absolute safety and the best care for your pet, while you are away.

RMSAAM wishes you and yours a Happy and safe New Year!


Free Webinar! “Business Building in the Equine Massage World”

In the end, I asked her a few clever questions, like: What drew Jenny to the world of horses after being a high school biology teacher. .. (Image: Sandi Martinez)
In the end, I asked her a few clever questions, like: What drew Jenny to the world of horses after being a high school biology teacher. .. (Image: Sandi Martinez)

by Sandi Martinez

Jenny Rukavina Marchese, as always shines like a bright star across dark skies.  I joined in the FREE, that’s right, free webinar last night – if you missed it, shame on you!  It’s FREE!  But, I’m veering off track… Jenny is calm, attentive, aware, and direct.

She talked about the nuts and bolts of building a business in the Equine Massage World.  What does this mean exactly?  How it sounds – a flowering business as an Equine Massage therapist.  Jenny covered points that ranged from the benefits of massage for horses, which by the way are similar to the benefits for humans: muscular dexterity, emotional benefits, lymphatic drainage, and so on.

Jenny made some good points about your niche: just where and HOW do you want to be out there, and how is it that you want your name, your logo, your services to stand out?  Is it dressage?  Sports?  Therapeutic?  What?  It’s important in this process, not to undervalue yourself; you want to offer a discount in the beginning, but just how far do you want to go with that?  Value yourself, and your services above and beyond what you may assume others may brand you (not Jenny’s words, their mine!).

In the end, I asked her a few clever questions, like: What drew Jenny to the world of horses after being a high school biology teacher. Her answer: In 2003, her horse suffered an injury, and it was around that time, that she found herself in Colorado, and Acadia Equine Rehabilitation was born!

One thing that really caught my attention was how she recommended that animal practitioners out there prevent meandering thoughts of other fellow practitioners as ‘competitors’, but colleagues.  She said that there are plenty of horses to go around; aren’t there though?  The thing is you may find yourself at odds with the owners, or the horse in which you are trying to provide your services to.  This has happened to me with human massage therapists.  I didn’t quite click with them.  What did they do?  They recommended other massage therapists!  We are all in this together!

Please folks, I’d love to hear your take on these free (wait… did I mention they are FREE?) webinars, so how am I going to do that and get some conversations going, if you don’t join in the fun?

See ya there next time!